High Profile Nigerian Weddings Prove Personality Is The New Luxury
When we think of unforgettable Nigerian weddings, it’s not just about the glitz, the guest lists, or even the décor. What truly makes a wedding memorable is the couples personality, how it come through in the decor and design choices and ultimately how strong the storytelling is. Recently, we’ve seen stunning examples of this in three highly talked-about events:
• Temi Otedola & Tosin Ajibade (Mr Eazi)
• Tsitse & Tofa
• Asa Asika & Leona’s Traditional Wedding
What sets these weddings apart is that they went beyond “pretty décor.” Each reflected the couple’s individuality, style, and story. And that’s where the lessons lie for anyone planning their wedding.
The Trap of the “Cookie-Cutter” Wedding
Too often, weddings fall into the trap of being cookie-cutter. Couples share their colour palette, a few Pinterest moodboards boards, and then rely on vendors to replicate designs they’ve executed multiple times before.
What happened to using the moodboard and inspiration rather than something to replicate. (Don’t get me wrong, if you see something you really like and want to steal GO AHEAD! But don’t forget to add your own spin on things).
Many planners fall into this trap because it’s safe and it won’t disappoint the guests or the client. But safe hardly moves people and while it may look nice, it lacks soul and can come across as just decoration. You don’t want to spend all that money for just decoration - right?
And that’s the difference between a pretty event and a memorable one.
The problem with the cookie cutter approach is threefold:
You end up with an event that will eventually become ‘dated’ and look like all the other weddings in that time period. Remember the (insert font name and the green leaf border signs) - the hallmark of many millennial weddings in America.
The event tells a generic story, not your story - just scroll through BellaNaija, similar weddings, different colour palettes.
Guests leave impressed by the beauty, but not moved by authenticity - that authenticity is usually what keeps your wedding in the mouths of people and lands you on moodboards (if that’s your goal).
Lessons From Three High Profile Nigerian Weddings in 2025
1. Temi Otedola & Tosin “Mr Eazi” Ajibade
(A Yoruba wedding)
Temi and Mr Eazi’s wedding was the perfect blend of elegance and individuality. It was a curated experience with just enough branded elements to make it a moment in time. For those of us that have followed Temi since her JTO Fashion days know that Temi was all overrrr those weddings. Temi’s refined, fashion-forward style harmonised with Mr Eazi’s creative and unconventional personality. Every detail from styling down to their guest numbers felt extremely intentional to reflect them and not a trend or a template.
One of the stand out moments was their leaving party at a hot spring, complete with branded merch: robes, slipper, towels and more that wove their guests into their story. It wasn’t performative, it was authentic and reflected the couples shared love for each other's creativity, art, travel and calm luxury.
This celebration leaned unapologetically into culture and heritage with an element of brand (as it should be if that’s your concept!).
Couples/ Planners ask yourselves:
How can your personalities complement each other in your wedding design? How can you share the best parts of your lifestyle for your guests to experience?
Are there elements such as music, décor, patterns and prints or attire — where you can inject your personal style rather than following trends?
Source: Jose Villa
2. Tsitse & Tofa
(An Itsekiri + Yoruba wedding)
Tise and Tofa’s wedding was a masterclass in fusing tradition with modern sophistication. Each element, from décor to guest experience, was deliberate and deeply personalised. Their weddings showcased thoughtfulness and intimacy, in fact, there was no room for generic. The couple have their own unique style and they made sure this was reflected in all of their outfits. Even the design choices for their wedding signage was them. They didn’t opt for a variation of the commonly used script + print text combos. You could see that there was a visible respect for tradition but with a contemporary awareness.
Their decor wasn’t overwhelming but instead it framed them and complemented their aesthetic. Their choices were a reflection of how much they valued meaning over spectacle.
All in all, they’re a cool pair and if you didn’t know before their wedding, you definitely know now.
Considerations for couples:
Which cultural or personal traditions matter most to you, and how can they be included meaningfully? Don’t be scared to interpret it your own way
How can you create a wedding that is timeless and authentic to your relationship, aesthetic and journey?
Source: Bella Naija
3. Asa Asika & Leona’s Traditional Wedding
(An Igbo + Yoruba wedding)
Asa Asika and Leona’s traditional wedding was pure energy, the kind that can’t be replicated because it was rooted in personality. Their event was styled with modern precision. You could feel their confidence in the choices they made: bold colours and dynamic textures that brought the atmosphere to life.
From fashion choices to vibrant décor and energy, the wedding celebrated their roots while remaining true to their personalities. It was impossible to mistake this celebration for anyone else’s.
Again Rich Girl Paper (formerly known as Anoela Card) is Leona’s baby and she made sure we knew that! If you have a brand/ business and capacity/ resource to take yourself on as a client then do so, there’s nothing wrong with a shameless plug. It’s another way to inject yourself into your celebration and you have nothing to lose.
Lessons for couples:
What aspects of your heritage or upbringing should be highlighted?
How can modern wedding design merge with cultural authenticity in a way that feels true to you?
Source: Theweddingguruu
Why Your Wedding Should Tell Your Story
The common thread in all of these weddings is the authenticity that was so seamlessly woven into their big days. These weddings remind us that the best weddings are not defined by trending colours, “it” decorators or social media clout. They are defined by the couple, their story, personality and vision.
As event planners, our role is more than making things look beautiful. We listen, understand your story, and translate your personality into a celebration that is unforgettable.
So as you plan your big day:
Don’t settle for recycled designs.
Challenge your vendors to think creatively.
Above all, make sure your wedding feels like you.
